**Nafass**

I know that flirting can be a huge source of contempt in relationships. Some guys see their partners flirting with other men and go ballistic. Some women see guys flirting with other women and think he's trying to score.

And while I know that flirting can be a dangerous game if you're playing with the wrong people, I also believe that flirting can be healthy - as long as you're taking the energy you're building and putting it back into your relationship.

So, what can innocent flirting with a co-worker, stranger, or random bartender do to help your relationship? More than you may think.

Flirting Gives You Confidence

A relationship progresses after some time, and both sides fall into the same rut of Friday pizza, Saturday out, and sleepy Sunday. Same old, same old. The message: We're stuck together, we're comfortable together, and we may be perfectly content together.

All well and good, but that does as much for your romantic confidence as having spinach in your teeth. What flirting allows you to do is feel like you're impressing another person and being attractive to another person - without the baggage, stigma, and pressures of the next step. Bringing that sexual and romantic confidence back to your relationship helps you - and strengthens the relationship across the board.

Flirting Keeps You Sharp

Being wanted is one of our most basic needs. Sometimes, when we're in relationships, we don't always get that positive vibe - that we're wanted, needed, and desired.

Every once in a while, flirting can reinforce that primitive need of feeling valued. And that little innocent dialogue with some stranger in a bookstore may be all the kick-start you need to lose a little weight or change up your hair or whatever it is that you want to do to make yourself feel better about yourself. Which has benefits for everyone involved.

Flirting Lets You Build Up Sexual Energy

Some shrinks say it's OK to fantasize about anyone you want and build up a head of steam - as long as you, well, go ahead then and release that pent up energy with your partner.

So in a way, you can use flirting as a kind of foreplay. Build a little frisky tension with the barista, get warmed up, then bring home the dividends. And when you're at home, leave a copy of this list around the house. Think of it as a kind of flirting with your partner - and a fun to-do list.

Flirting Reminds You How Good You Have It

The fun of flirting is that there are no strings attached. Just some good ole banter with jokes, laughs, and some well-timed sexual innuendo. Fun at first. But when you think of the long process that comes after, it makes you realize that what you've got at home is exactly what you want.

white_hat

flirting is great, as long as you dont catch ur gf/bf doing it

**Nafass**

miss_sanaz

che dorost bood

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Ressan_NL

Nafass jan baz ba in thread ha bacheharo shir mikoni, hala shab ke amadan khone rade 5 ta angosht roo sorateshon bod Chi????????

**Nafass**

dige kharbozeh o larzo mokhalafat ke yekish hamini ke gofti mitoone bashe

Ferdos

sure flirting is good, and fun, and i like it , but you wanna make sure you do it with a person whom you know enough.

flirting beyne zan o mard eshkali nadaare, vali be nazare man vaghti ye zan o mard dar morede relationship "serious" shodan, flirt kardan ba afraade digge (be khosoos kesani ke khob nemishnasim) kaare zeshtist, va hatta baaese az beyn bordane relationship mishe.

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miss_sanaz

fekr nemikonam, albate bastegi dare be taraf chon flirt gharar nist serious bashe. ama age tarafet bi janbe bashe yeho didi jav gir shodo...

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ssdd

khaili komak mikone koli trust be relationship mide lol

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nimamc

merc vase tekrar

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